Better Sex

Better Sex

This section brings together sexual wellness products that solve specific problems: friction, feel, durability, hygiene. They are not toys, they are the items that make everything else work better, and they are best chosen based on what you want to change.

Lubes & Essentials | Condoms | Stimulants for Men | Personal Care

Start with what you want to solve

Lack of comfort or dryness

It is the number one reason and the one with the most direct solution. A water-based lubricant with a pH close to 4.5 and moderate osmolality is the most versatile, compatible with latex and any toy. It's in Water-Based, and the entire range in Lubes & Essentials.

Do you want to notice more

A gel estimulante with menthol, arginine or plant extracts produces a sensation of heat or local tingling. Always start with a minimum amount, because in the mucosa the sensation is multiplied compared to what you feel in your hand. They are at Warming & Cooling Lubricants.

Do you want it to last longer?

Two different paths. The chemical is a spray retardante with local anesthetic, which reduces sensitivity for a while; It requires waiting five to ten minutes and removing the excess before contact so as not to transfer the effect. They are at Stimulants for Men. The mechanic is a ring, which acts by pressure and does not numb anything, in Cock Rings.

Protection

The full range by type, thickness and material is at Condoms.

Hygiene

External cleaning with a product of appropriate pH and specific cleaners for toys, in Personal Care and Toy Cleaners & Essentials.

What can be combined with what

This is the part that no one puts together and the one that avoids spoiling one product with another. Four rules cover practically all cases.

  • Aceite y látex no se mezclan. Any oil-based product, including massage oils and many body creams, breaks down latex in minutes and breaks down the barrier. If there is a latex condom, the lubricant must be water or silicone.
  • Silicona sobre silicona, no. A silicone lubricant softens the surface of a silicone toy permanently. With glass, steel or ABS there is no problem.
  • Base de agua con todo. It is the only one that is compatible with latex, silicone, glass and skin without exceptions. That's why it's the default choice.
  • Un producto activo cada vez. Combining a retardant with a stimulating gel and a lubricant with a heating effect is the quickest way to end irritation and without knowing what caused it.

Test first on skin, not mucosa

It is valid for everything that contains an active ingredient: retardants, sensation gels, flavored gels and any new product. Apply a small amount to your forearm and wait 24 hours.

The mucosa absorbs much faster and tolerates much less than the skin, so a reaction that would be a slight redness on the arm can be quite annoying if the first test is done directly where it touches.

Where the product ends and the professional begins

These items are wellness products, not medications, and are designed to adjust comfort and sensation in specific situations.

If the problem is persistent, if there is pain, or if you are being treated with cardiovascular or other medications and are considering oral supplements, it is reasonable to consult with a healthcare professional first. Not a formulary warning: supplements in this category may interact.

For the game for two

Shared play accessories are in Fun Foreplay, toys designed for couples in Couples Vibrators and massage oils in Massage Oils & Candles.

Which product solves what

This table is the summary of the section: what to use according to the objective, when it is applied and if it coexists with latex. It is the check that avoids most combination errors.

Objective Product When it applies Latex compatible
Comfort and slip Water-based lubricant Before and during, reapplying Yes
More sensation Hot or cold effect gel Minimum quantity, 2 or 3 minutes before Check label
Longer duration Retardant spray 5 to 10 minutes before, removing the excess Yes
Longer duration without asset Penis ring Before full erection Yes
Protection Condom Before any contact It is the barrier
Massage and climate Massage oil or candle On skin, never on mucosa No, it degrades latex
Hygiene Intimate or toy cleaner After, and before saving Yes

Oils and candles are at Massage Oils & Candles, and single-ingredient products for sensitive skin are at Natural & Organic.

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Frequently asked questions

Which lubricant is the safest to use with everything?

The water-based one. It is the only one compatible with latex, silicone, glass and skin, so it works with any condom and any toy without degrading it.

How do you use a delay spray without affecting your partner?

It is applied 5 to 10 minutes before and the excess is removed with a cloth or water before contact. This step is what prevents transferring the anesthetic effect to the other person.

Can a stimulating gel and a lubricant with a heating effect be combined?

It's not a good idea. One active product at a time: if irritation appears with two or three at a time, there is no way to know which one caused it or to repeat what worked.

Why can't you use oil with a preservative?

Because any oil base, including massage oils and many body creams, breaks down the latex in minutes and destroys the barrier. With latex condom, water or silicone lubricant.

Should I consult a professional before taking supplements?

If there is cardiovascular or other medication involved, yes. They are wellness products, not medications, and some ingredients in this category may interact.

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