The Intimacy Journal by Lace & Luna

Expert buying guides to help you choose with confidence.

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Browse every guide from The Intimacy Journal, organised by category.

Luxury flat-lay of penis pump, water-based lubricant, toy cleaner, towel, storage pouch and note card for a penis pump guide.

Penis Pumps Explained: Benefits, Safety and Wha...

Curious about penis pumps? This guide covers how they work, water vs air models, safety, realistic results and our top picks from Bathmate, Boners and more.

Penis Pumps Explained: Benefits, Safety and Wha...

Curious about penis pumps? This guide covers how they work, water vs air models, safety, realistic results and our top picks from Bathmate, Boners and more.

Vibrating anal beads and classic anal beads compared in a luxury flat-lay with anal lubricant, toy cleaner, satin pouch and discreet wellness essentials.

Vibrating Anal Beads: How They Differ From Clas...

Classic anal beads rely on movement alone. Vibrating beads add buzz, remotes and couples play. This guide explains the difference and helps you choose.

Vibrating Anal Beads: How They Differ From Clas...

Classic anal beads rely on movement alone. Vibrating beads add buzz, remotes and couples play. This guide explains the difference and helps you choose.

Luxury flat-lay of prostate massager, thick anal lubricant, toy cleaner, satin pouch, towel and safety note card.

Prostate Massagers Explained: How to Choose and...

 Curious about prostate stimulation? This guide explains how P-spot massagers differ from butt plugs, how to choose safely, and our top picks from Lace & Luna.

Prostate Massagers Explained: How to Choose and...

 Curious about prostate stimulation? This guide explains how P-spot massagers differ from butt plugs, how to choose safely, and our top picks from Lace & Luna.

Thick anal lubricant arranged with body-safe anal toy, toy cleaner, towel and satin pouch in a luxury intimate wellness flat-lay.

Best Anal Lubricants: Why Thicker Lube Matters

 Anal play needs more lubricant than most people expect. This guide explains why thicker anal lube matters, how to choose, and our top picks from Lace & Luna.

Best Anal Lubricants: Why Thicker Lube Matters

 Anal play needs more lubricant than most people expect. This guide explains why thicker anal lube matters, how to choose, and our top picks from Lace & Luna.

Luxury flat-lay of male masturbators, water-based lubricant, toy cleaner, folded towel and storage pouch for a discreet solo pleasure guide.

Best Male Masturbators: A Discreet Guide for So...

From compact Fleshlight strokers to hands-free automatic machines, this guide helps you choose the best male masturbator for solo pleasure with confidence and discretion.

Best Male Masturbators: A Discreet Guide for So...

From compact Fleshlight strokers to hands-free automatic machines, this guide helps you choose the best male masturbator for solo pleasure with confidence and discretion.

Luxury flat-lay of beginner-friendly butt plugs with flared bases, anal lubricant, toy cleaner, satin pouch and sizing guide.

Butt Plugs Explained: Sizes, Materials and How ...

 Not sure which butt plug to buy? This guide covers sizes, materials, safe use and the best styles for beginners, prostate play and couples, with product picks from Lace &...

Butt Plugs Explained: Sizes, Materials and How ...

 Not sure which butt plug to buy? This guide covers sizes, materials, safe use and the best styles for beginners, prostate play and couples, with product picks from Lace &...

Luxury flat-lay of beginner-friendly bullet vibrators with water-based lubricant, toy cleaner, satin pouch, folded towel and note card.

Best Bullet Vibrators: Small, Powerful and Begi...

If you want a first vibrator that feels manageable rather than intimidating, a bullet vibrator is often the smartest place to start. It is small enough to fit in one...

Best Bullet Vibrators: Small, Powerful and Begi...

If you want a first vibrator that feels manageable rather than intimidating, a bullet vibrator is often the smartest place to start. It is small enough to fit in one...

Black padded cuffs with rose-gold hardware, dark silk sash and satin blindfold on charcoal velvet — beginner bondage guide from Lace & Luna

Bondage for Beginners: Safe, Sensual Restraint ...

Curious about bondage but unsure where to start? This guide covers safe, sensual restraint play for beginners: consent, safewords, the best first props, and how to try it without pressure.

Bondage for Beginners: Safe, Sensual Restraint ...

Curious about bondage but unsure where to start? This guide covers safe, sensual restraint play for beginners: consent, safewords, the best first props, and how to try it without pressure.

Luxury flat-lay of cock rings, water-based lubricant, toy cleaner, satin pouch and towel for a cock rings guide.

The Complete Guide to Cock Rings: Types, Benefi...

Small toy, big benefits. This guide covers cock ring types, how to choose the right fit, safety time limits, and the best vibrating cock ring for couples.

The Complete Guide to Cock Rings: Types, Benefi...

Small toy, big benefits. This guide covers cock ring types, how to choose the right fit, safety time limits, and the best vibrating cock ring for couples.

Rose pink lipstick-style discreet vibrator on ivory silk with travel pouch, from the Lace & Luna discreet vibrators guide

Discreet Vibrators: The Best Quiet & Travel-Fri...

Find the best discreet vibrators for privacy and travel. Quiet motors, bullet and lipstick designs, travel locks, TSA tips and plain packaging. Discreet delivery.

Discreet Vibrators: The Best Quiet & Travel-Fri...

Find the best discreet vibrators for privacy and travel. Quiet motors, bullet and lipstick designs, travel locks, TSA tips and plain packaging. Discreet delivery.

Curved G-spot vibrator and bullet vibrator arranged with water-based lubricant, satin pouch and candle in a luxury intimate wellness flat-lay.

G-Spot Vibrators Explained: How to Find and Sti...

Curious about G-spot stimulation but not sure where to start? This guide explains how to find the g spot, what to look for in a g spot vibrator, and how...

G-Spot Vibrators Explained: How to Find and Sti...

Curious about G-spot stimulation but not sure where to start? This guide explains how to find the g spot, what to look for in a g spot vibrator, and how...

Deep mauve wand vibrator on dark silk, from the Lace & Luna wand vibrators buying guide

Wand Vibrators: The Ultimate Guide to Powerful ...

Wand vibrators are the powerhouse of any collection, with broad, rumbly stimulation nothing else matches. This guide covers corded vs rechargeable, full-size vs mini, how to use one properly, and...

Wand Vibrators: The Ultimate Guide to Powerful ...

Wand vibrators are the powerhouse of any collection, with broad, rumbly stimulation nothing else matches. This guide covers corded vs rechargeable, full-size vs mini, how to use one properly, and...

Rose pink air pulse clitoral vibrator on ivory silk, from the Lace & Luna air pulse vs clitoral vibrators guide

Air Pulse vs Clitoral Vibrators: Which One Shou...

Air pulse toys promise a completely different kind of sensation, but are they right for you? This guide compares air pulse and traditional clitoral vibrators, explains who each suits, and...

Air Pulse vs Clitoral Vibrators: Which One Shou...

Air pulse toys promise a completely different kind of sensation, but are they right for you? This guide compares air pulse and traditional clitoral vibrators, explains who each suits, and...

Body-safe silicone rabbit vibrator on ivory silk, from the Lace & Luna rabbit vibrator buying guide

Best Rabbit Vibrators: A Complete Buying Guide

Not sure which rabbit vibrator is right for you? This guide explains what a rabbit vibrator is, which features actually matter, and how it compares to bullets and wands, so...

Best Rabbit Vibrators: A Complete Buying Guide

Not sure which rabbit vibrator is right for you? This guide explains what a rabbit vibrator is, which features actually matter, and how it compares to bullets and wands, so...

Luxury self-care flat-lay with body-safe vibrators, lubricant, satin pouch, towel and wellness accessories.

The Wellbeing Benefits of Vibrators and Self-Pl...

Explore how vibrators and self-pleasure can support wellbeing, body confidence, communication, life-stage changes and a healthy shame-free self-care routine.

The Wellbeing Benefits of Vibrators and Self-Pl...

Explore how vibrators and self-pleasure can support wellbeing, body confidence, communication, life-stage changes and a healthy shame-free self-care routine.

Beginner anal play essentials arranged in a luxury flat-lay with anal plug, anal beads, lubricant, toy cleaner and satin pouch.

Anal Play for Beginners: How to Start Safely an...

A beginner-friendly guide to anal play, including safety rules, flared-base toys, anal plugs, slim beads, lubricant, hygiene and common myths.

Anal Play for Beginners: How to Start Safely an...

A beginner-friendly guide to anal play, including safety rules, flared-base toys, anal plugs, slim beads, lubricant, hygiene and common myths.

App-controlled intimate wellness products arranged with a smartphone, lubricant and satin pouch in a luxury flat-lay for a long-distance play guide.

How Do App-Controlled Sex Toys Work? A Guide to...

Learn how app-controlled sex toys work, including Bluetooth vs long-distance app control, partner play, privacy tips and features to look for in smart pleasure toys.

How Do App-Controlled Sex Toys Work? A Guide to...

Learn how app-controlled sex toys work, including Bluetooth vs long-distance app control, partner play, privacy tips and features to look for in smart pleasure toys.

Cock rings, lubricant, condoms and toy care essentials arranged in a luxury flat-lay for a beginner-friendly intimate wellness guide.

What Does a Cock Ring Do? Benefits and How to U...

Learn what a cock ring does, how it supports firmer erections, the difference between vibrating and non-vibrating rings, and how to use one safely.

What Does a Cock Ring Do? Benefits and How to U...

Learn what a cock ring does, how it supports firmer erections, the difference between vibrating and non-vibrating rings, and how to use one safely.

Clitoral vs G-Spot Stimulation: Understanding the Difference

Clitoral vs G-Spot Stimulation: Understanding t...

Understand the difference between clitoral and G-spot stimulation, including clitoral suction toys, G-spot vibrators, rabbit vibrators, blended pleasure and how to choose the right toy for your body.

Clitoral vs G-Spot Stimulation: Understanding t...

Understand the difference between clitoral and G-spot stimulation, including clitoral suction toys, G-spot vibrators, rabbit vibrators, blended pleasure and how to choose the right toy for your body.

Body-safe intimate wellness products arranged in a luxury flat-lay with silicone, glass, stainless steel, lubricant and toy cleaner.

Are Sex Toys Safe? Understanding Body-Safe Mate...

Wondering if sex toys are safe? Learn what body-safe means, which materials to choose, which to approach with care, and how to shop confidently at Lace & Luna.

Are Sex Toys Safe? Understanding Body-Safe Mate...

Wondering if sex toys are safe? Learn what body-safe means, which materials to choose, which to approach with care, and how to shop confidently at Lace & Luna.

Water-Based vs Silicone Lube: Which One Is Right for You?

Water-Based vs Silicone Lube: Which One Is Righ...

Not sure whether to choose water-based or silicone lube? Learn the key differences, best uses, toy compatibility, condom safety and how to choose the right lubricant for your body.

Water-Based vs Silicone Lube: Which One Is Righ...

Not sure whether to choose water-based or silicone lube? Learn the key differences, best uses, toy compatibility, condom safety and how to choose the right lubricant for your body.

Beginner’s Guide to Clitoral Suction Vibrators

Beginner’s Guide to Clitoral Suction Vibrators

New to clitoral suction vibrators? This beginner-friendly guide explains how they work, why they’re popular, and how to choose the right one with confidence.

Beginner’s Guide to Clitoral Suction Vibrators

New to clitoral suction vibrators? This beginner-friendly guide explains how they work, why they’re popular, and how to choose the right one with confidence.

Beginner’s Guide to Anal Toys

Beginner’s Guide to Anal Toys

New to anal toys? This beginner-friendly guide explains the different types of anal toys, how to choose the right one, and why lubrication and body-safe materials matter.

Beginner’s Guide to Anal Toys

New to anal toys? This beginner-friendly guide explains the different types of anal toys, how to choose the right one, and why lubrication and body-safe materials matter.

Luxury flat-lay of quiet intimate wellness products including bullet vibrator, palm vibrator, lubricant and satin pouch for discreet pleasure.

Top 10 Quiet Sex Toys for Discreet Pleasure

Discover the top 10 quiet sex toys for discreet pleasure, including bullet vibrators, clitoral suction toys, couples toys, G-spot vibrators and quiet male masturbators.

Top 10 Quiet Sex Toys for Discreet Pleasure

Discover the top 10 quiet sex toys for discreet pleasure, including bullet vibrators, clitoral suction toys, couples toys, G-spot vibrators and quiet male masturbators.

Luxury flat-lay of toy cleaner, towel, satin pouch, lubricant and body-safe intimate products for a sex toy cleaning and storage guide

How to Clean and Store Sex Toys Safely: A Compl...

Learn how to clean and store sex toys safely with this simple care guide. Discover hygiene tips, storage advice, and the best products to keep your toys clean, protected, and...

How to Clean and Store Sex Toys Safely: A Compl...

Learn how to clean and store sex toys safely with this simple care guide. Discover hygiene tips, storage advice, and the best products to keep your toys clean, protected, and...

The Beginner’s Guide to Lubricants: Types, Benefits & How to Choose

The Beginner’s Guide to Lubricants: Types, Bene...

New to lubricants? Discover the different types of lube, their benefits, how to choose the right one, and which Lace & Luna products pair best with toys and intimacy.

The Beginner’s Guide to Lubricants: Types, Bene...

New to lubricants? Discover the different types of lube, their benefits, how to choose the right one, and which Lace & Luna products pair best with toys and intimacy.

How Sex Toys Can Improve the Health of Older Women

How Sex Toys Can Improve the Health of Older Women

Discover how sex toys can support the intimate wellbeing of older women, including comfort after menopause, confidence, lubricants, gentle vibrators, and couples toys.

How Sex Toys Can Improve the Health of Older Women

Discover how sex toys can support the intimate wellbeing of older women, including comfort after menopause, confidence, lubricants, gentle vibrators, and couples toys.

Sex Toys 101: Types, Materials, and Safety — Beginner’s Guide

Sex Toys 101: Types, Materials, and Safety — Be...

New to sex toys? This beginner-friendly Sex Toys 101 guide explains the main types, body-safe materials, lubricants, cleaning, and safety tips.

Sex Toys 101: Types, Materials, and Safety — Be...

New to sex toys? This beginner-friendly Sex Toys 101 guide explains the main types, body-safe materials, lubricants, cleaning, and safety tips.

How to Last Longer in Bed (For Men): 11 Proven Tips to Improve Stamina

How to Last Longer in Bed (For Men): 11 Proven ...

In this guide, we’ll explore 11 effective ways to last longer in bed, along with helpful products that can enhance pleasure and performance.

How to Last Longer in Bed (For Men): 11 Proven ...

In this guide, we’ll explore 11 effective ways to last longer in bed, along with helpful products that can enhance pleasure and performance.

Low Libido? 10 Ways to Boost Your Desire Naturally (2026 Guide)

Low Libido? 10 Ways to Boost Your Desire Natura...

Low libido? Discover 10 natural ways to support desire, comfort, confidence, and intimacy in this 2026 Lace & Luna guide, with beginner-friendly product tips.

Low Libido? 10 Ways to Boost Your Desire Natura...

Low libido? Discover 10 natural ways to support desire, comfort, confidence, and intimacy in this 2026 Lace & Luna guide, with beginner-friendly product tips.

Best Vibrators for Beginners - 2026 Edition

Best Vibrators for Beginners - 2026 Edition

New to vibrators? Discover the best beginner-friendly vibrator types for 2026, including bullet vibrators, clitoral suction toys, G-spot vibrators, wand vibrators, and couples toys.

Best Vibrators for Beginners - 2026 Edition

New to vibrators? Discover the best beginner-friendly vibrator types for 2026, including bullet vibrators, clitoral suction toys, G-spot vibrators, wand vibrators, and couples toys.

Lingerie Guides

Style guides on fit, colour and lingerie types for every body.

Elegant lingerie styles for different body types including lace sets and bodysuits

The Best Lingerie for Every Body Type: Find You...

Discover the best lingerie for every body type in this Lace & Luna guide, with flattering style tips for sets, bodysuits, corsets, nightwear, and more.

The Best Lingerie for Every Body Type: Find You...

Discover the best lingerie for every body type in this Lace & Luna guide, with flattering style tips for sets, bodysuits, corsets, nightwear, and more.

Elegant lingerie styles including babydolls, bodysuits, teddies, and corsets arranged in a premium flat-lay

Lingerie Styles Explained: Babydolls, Bodysuits...

Confused by babydolls, bodysuits, teddies, and corsets? This beginner-friendly guide explains the most popular lingerie styles and how to choose the right one for confidence, comfort, and elegance.

Lingerie Styles Explained: Babydolls, Bodysuits...

Confused by babydolls, bodysuits, teddies, and corsets? This beginner-friendly guide explains the most popular lingerie styles and how to choose the right one for confidence, comfort, and elegance.

The Best Lingerie Colours for Different Skin Tones

The Best Lingerie Colours for Different Skin Tones

Discover the best lingerie colours for every skin tone. From soft neutrals to bold statement shades, find styles that enhance confidence and complement your natural beauty.

The Best Lingerie Colours for Different Skin Tones

Discover the best lingerie colours for every skin tone. From soft neutrals to bold statement shades, find styles that enhance confidence and complement your natural beauty.

Lingerie Styles Explained: Elegant & Confidence-Boosting Designs

Lingerie Styles Explained: Elegant & Confidence...

In this guide, we explore some of the most popular lingerie styles and how to choose pieces that help you feel confident, comfortable, and stylish.

Lingerie Styles Explained: Elegant & Confidence...

In this guide, we explore some of the most popular lingerie styles and how to choose pieces that help you feel confident, comfortable, and stylish.

Couples Guides

Guides on shared pleasure, date night ideas, couples toys and intimacy together.

Luxury bedroom date-night scene with candles, champagne glasses, lace lingerie, massage oil, rose petals and romantic home essentials.

How to Set the Mood for Date Night at Home

You do not need a grand plan to make date night feel special. This guide covers lighting, scent, bath rituals and Home & Atmosphere picks to set the mood at...

How to Set the Mood for Date Night at Home

You do not need a grand plan to make date night feel special. This guide covers lighting, scent, bath rituals and Home & Atmosphere picks to set the mood at...

Rose pink love egg and weighted jiggle balls on ivory linen — love eggs and jiggle balls guide from Lace & Luna

Love Eggs and Jiggle Balls: Pleasure, Pelvic Fl...

Love eggs and jiggle balls offer discreet internal pleasure, pelvic floor engagement and couples play. This guide explains the difference, how to choose, and our top picks.

Love Eggs and Jiggle Balls: Pleasure, Pelvic Fl...

Love eggs and jiggle balls offer discreet internal pleasure, pelvic floor engagement and couples play. This guide explains the difference, how to choose, and our top picks.

Luxury flat-lay of couples card game, dice, blindfold, candle, champagne glasses and romantic date-night essentials.

Best Couples Games to Spice Up Date Night

Couples games are a playful, low-pressure way to reconnect on date night. From foreplay roulette to conversation decks, find sex games for couples that suit beginners and long-term partners alike.

Best Couples Games to Spice Up Date Night

Couples games are a playful, low-pressure way to reconnect on date night. From foreplay roulette to conversation decks, find sex games for couples that suit beginners and long-term partners alike.

Luxury flat-lay of couples vibrators, water-based lubricant, satin pouch, candle and romantic date-night essentials.

Best Couples Vibrators to Use Together

Couples vibrators are built for two, not adapted from solo toys. This guide covers wearable C-shapes, cock rings, remote control and how to introduce one together with confidence.

Best Couples Vibrators to Use Together

Couples vibrators are built for two, not adapted from solo toys. This guide covers wearable C-shapes, cock rings, remote control and how to introduce one together with confidence.

Smartphone and rose pink app-controlled vibrating egg on ivory silk, from the Lace & Luna long-distance couples guide

Best App-Controlled Vibrators for Long-Distance...

Long-distance does not have to mean less connection. This guide covers the best app controlled vibrators for couples apart, from Bluetooth basics to Lovense and Magic Motion picks.

Best App-Controlled Vibrators for Long-Distance...

Long-distance does not have to mean less connection. This guide covers the best app controlled vibrators for couples apart, from Bluetooth basics to Lovense and Magic Motion picks.

Couple relaxing together in a bedroom exploring intimacy and connection in a romantic setting

Best Couples Sex Toys for Better Intimacy: A Co...

Discover the best couples sex toys for better intimacy, from couples vibrators and app-controlled toys to foreplay essentials, wand vibrators, and Lovense.

Best Couples Sex Toys for Better Intimacy: A Co...

Discover the best couples sex toys for better intimacy, from couples vibrators and app-controlled toys to foreplay essentials, wand vibrators, and Lovense.

Couple discussing intimacy and exploring beginner-friendly sex toys together

How to Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationshi...

A beginner-friendly guide to introducing sex toys into your relationship, including how to start the conversation, choose couples toys, and explore intimacy together with confidence.

How to Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationshi...

A beginner-friendly guide to introducing sex toys into your relationship, including how to start the conversation, choose couples toys, and explore intimacy together with confidence.