A harness is chosen based on two measurements and one compatibility: the contour where it will rest, the type of fastening and the diameter of the ring. With those three facts resolved, the rest is aesthetic preference. Without them, the piece will most likely move just when it shouldn't.
Strap-on Harnesses | Strap-On Dildos | All Strap On Toys | Bondage & Fetish
Types of fastening
| Type | How to hold | Stability |
|---|---|---|
| Two straps | Waist and thighs | High |
| Thong type | A strip between the legs | Medium |
| Panty or short type | Distributed throughout the hip | Very high |
| Thigh | It fits the leg | Media, another angle |
| Without straps | Holds by pressure | Low |
| With bullet pocket | Add vibration | Depending on the model |
Where to measure
For a waist harness, measure the circumference where it will actually rest, which is usually over the hip bone and not at the natural waist. For a thigh one, the contour of the leg at its widest point.
The panty-type models use clothing sizes and are the ones that best distribute pressure, so they are more comfortable in long sessions. Those with straps fit more bodies, but require a patient initial adjustment to avoid marking.
The ring and compatibility
The diameter of the ring must match the base of the toy: if the ring is larger, the piece pitches; If it is less, it does not enter. A harness with a set of interchangeable rings solves the problem at once and allows the use of pieces of different thicknesses.
Also check that your dildo has a flat and wide base; A piece with a suction cup usually works, but one with a narrow base is not firm. The compatible ones are in Strap-On Dildos.
##Chafe-free fit
The harness should be firm without marking the skin: two fingers should pass under the strap. If when you move you notice that the piece moves, tighten the thigh straps first and only then the waist strap.
Chafing almost always appears on the inner edge of the thigh. A model with a fabric or neoprene lining prevents this better than one made of rigid leather, especially if the session is long.
Materials and care
Nylon with buckles is the easiest to wash and the most economical. The neoprene is padded and comfortable. Leather is the most durable, although it requires maintenance and cannot be put in water.
Wash nylon and neoprene by hand with mild soap and air dry; The leather is cleaned with a damp cloth and moisturized from time to time. Clean the toy separately with Toy Cleaners & Essentials product. Exclusive sale for people over 18 years of age.
Discreet shipping from Lace & Luna
Orders arrive in plain, unbranded packaging, with no reference to the contents on the outside, and the bank charge is just as discreet. Details are at embalaje discreto. We are a family store and here the fit seems more important than the material.
Where to measure and how to choose the size
For panty models, the measurement is the hip circumference at its widest point. In those with straps, what rules is the waist circumference, because the upper band is the one that supports the tension. And in thigh ones, the contour of the thigh is measured about ten centimeters from the groin, which is where the piece rests.
When the measurement falls right between two sizes, the larger one is usually a better choice, because all of these harnesses tighten and none of them get bigger. The models with four-point adjustment are the ones that give the most margin and the ones that adapt best if the contour changes.
The ring and compatibility
The standard ring usually measures 3.8 centimeters and accepts most flat bases on the market. Interchangeable ring sets solve the root problem, because they allow you to go from a thin toy to a thick one without changing the harness.
What you have to check before buying is that the base of the toy is wider than the ring and that it has a clear lip. A flat base without a lip moves forward with movement, and that is the usual cause of a harness looking poorly designed when the problem is with the piece it holds.
Comfort for the wearer
Wide, lined straps distribute better and do not mark; The thin unlined nylon ones bite after ten minutes. If you plan to use it for a long time, it is worth choosing a model with padding in the support area even if it is somewhat more expensive.
Vibrating bullet pocket harnesses add stimulation for the wearer, which is the difference between engaging and just holding the toy.
Frequently asked questions
Which type holds better?
The panty or short type, because they distribute the pressure throughout the hip. The two strap ones are close if they fit well.
Where is it measured?
In the contour where the harness will rest, normally on the hip bone, not on the natural waist.
How do I know if my dildo is compatible?
It must have a flat and wide base, and its diameter must match the ring. Interchangeable rings give more margin.
Why does the piece move?
Almost always due to a ring that is too large or loose thigh straps. Adjust the thigh first and then the waist.
How do you wash it?
Nylon and neoprene by hand with neutral soap and air dried. The leather, with a damp and moisturizing cloth, never submerged.