Couples Games

A juego erótico para parejas works for a reason that has nothing to do with the game itself: it gives permission to propose things that would be difficult to say out loud. The box puts the words and takes away the weight of having to bring up the topic.

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The formats and what each one does

• Cartas. The most flexible format. It is played for ten minutes or two hours, the ones that don't fit are discarded and it doesn't require setting up anything. It is the best starting point.
• Dados. Fast and unstructured. One side indicates an action and the other an area of ​​the body. They work as an unlock, not as a night plan.
• Tablero. Long structure with progression. It requires time and willingness from both of us, and it is the format that is most abandoned halfway through if the energy is not there.
• Botes de retos o vales. They are released one at a time and are fulfilled over days or weeks. It is the format that works best for couples with little continuous time.
• Preguntas y conversación. No physical action. It serves to discover what interests the other person and is usually the one that changes things the most in the medium term.

The house rule that is necessary before starting

This is the point that almost no game includes and what decides if the experience is good.

Agree before the first letter that either of you can discard a proposal without explaining why and without penalty. No question, no negotiation, no alternative garment: it is discarded and we move on to the next one.

Without that rule, the game creates a subtle pressure to follow through, and that's where it stops being fun. With it, you can play with more daring cards than you would otherwise, because there is a way out.

A variant that works very well is to review the deck together before playing and remove from the start what neither wants. It removes surprise and adds peace of mind, and most couples prefer that exchange.

How to choose the level

Games often escalate from mild to explicit, and the common mistake is to start at the level you think you should want instead of the one you really want.

If this is your first time playing something like this, choose a game with gradual progression and start with the initial section even if it seems too smooth. It is much easier to raise the tension once it is created than to lower it.

If you already have experience, thematic games focused on a specific area perform better than general ones, because they do not dilute interest in cards that do not suit you.

A practical detail about the language

Many games in this category come in multiple languages or with iconography instead of text. Check on the card what language the cards are in before buying, because a conversation game in a language in which you do not know both loses exactly what makes it work.

What to have on hand

A game works much better if you don't have to interrupt it to look for things. It is worth having prepared Water-Based lubricant, a Hoods, Masks & Blindfolds bandage, and if the deck includes immobilization challenges, some Handcuffs & Restraints soft handcuffs.

Couples Vibrators's shared toys fit well with various formats, and Remote App Controlled Toys's remote control toys allow you to take the game outside the home.

To give as a gift

It is one of the least uncomfortable gift options, because it is read as a shared proposal and not as an expectation. More ideas at Gifts For Couples and at Gift Ideas.

The formats, compared

The format decides how long the game lasts and how much is involved. It is worth choosing it depending on the night you have in mind.

The accessories that some challenge cards usually request are in Fun Foreplay, and the gift options in Gifts For Couples.

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Frequently asked questions

What do you remember before you start?

That anyone can pass on a letter without explanation and without penalty. With that rule on the table from the beginning, the game works; Without it, it becomes an uncomfortable negotiation.

Which level should be chosen?

One below what it seems. A soft game can be toned up on the fly, and one that is too explicit for the moment stays in the box.

Do the games come in Spanish?

Not always. It is a good idea to check the language on the sheet, because many international titles come only in English and that completely changes the pace of the game.

Do they serve as a gift?

They are one of the easiest gifts to get right, because they do not depend on size or specific preferences. Question letters work even with couples who have not purchased anything from the industry.

Do we need to have toys to play with?

No. Most formats are resolved without anything else. Some challenge cards suggest accessories, but allow alternatives or are simply passed.