Strap-On Toys

Strap-on adult toys add a confident new dimension to shared intimacy, pairing a supportive harness with a compatible dildo for hands-free play. At Lace & Luna, our collection brings together adjustable harnesses, body-safe dildos, strapless designs and vibrating options, all chosen for comfort, stability and modern style. Whether it is your first strap-on or a refined favourite setup, browse versatile pieces built for connection and control, delivered discreetly.

  Types of Strap-On Adult Toys

  Harness and Dildo Sets

The classic, most flexible setup — pair an adjustable harness with a separate dildo you can swap any time. Build your combination from our strap-on harnesses and strap-on dildos, or add a realistic dildo for a lifelike look.

  Strapless Strap-Ons

No harness needed: one end is held internally by the wearer while the other penetrates, for a more connected, shared sensation.

  Vibrating Strap-Ons

Add stimulation for both partners with motorised designs; see our vibrating dildos for harness-compatible options.

  Double and Hollow Strap-Ons

Double designs allow simultaneous penetration for both partners, while hollow styles fit over the penis to add firmness, length or girth.

  How to Choose the Right Strap-On

Choosing a strap-on comes down to the harness, the dildo and matching the two. A good harness sits snugly without pinching and stays put — thong and jock styles are easy everyday choices, with fully adjustable straps suiting most body types. For the dildo, beginners often prefer a slim five-to-six-inch body-safe silicone design, and it must have a flared base to lock into the harness O-ring. Harnesses use O-rings of different diameters, so check the ring matches your dildo's base — too large and it feels unstable, too small and it will not seat. Many harnesses include interchangeable rings to fit a range of widths.

  Why Shop Strap-On Toys at Lace & Luna

Body-safe, non-porous silicone is the gold standard for strap-on dildos — easy to clean and bacteria-resistant. Use plenty of lubricant for comfort, choosing a water-based lubricant with silicone toys, and clean before and after each use with our toy care and hygiene range; read our standards on the product safety page.

Strap-ons suit everyone — couples of all genders, pegging, and solo play with a suction-cup dildo — and pair naturally with the wider couples toys range, or with anal toys and plenty of lubricant for comfortable anal play. Every order arrives in plain, discreet packaging with a secure checkout.

  Strap-On Adult Toys FAQs

  Are strap-on toys suitable for beginners?

Yes. A simple adjustable harness with a slim, body-safe dildo of around five to six inches keeps play comfortable and builds confidence before moving to larger or more advanced designs.

  Do you need a harness for a strap-on?

Most do, but strapless strap-ons do not — they are held internally by the wearer. Harness-based sets offer more stability and a wider choice of compatible dildos.

  What is pegging?

Pegging is anal penetration using a strap-on, most often where a woman penetrates a male partner. It is most comfortable with a slim dildo and generous lubrication.